Sunday, November 24, 2013

A Sunny day

I just saw where Sunny Holloway passed away and it reminded me of some fond memories.  It was good to hear he had been another who served in the armed forces and in particular WW II.   It really does seem that everyone in that age group were in the war.  I remember Mrs. Shumate telling us how difficult it was with so many men and boys gone to the war.  Well back to Sunny.

I suppose we all know very little about each other and it seems that I knew very little about Sunny other than what my dad said about him and the times I talked to him.  The last time was about a year ago at one of those Shidler events which as I recall was Dorothy Kelsey's funeral.  It sure seems like a lot of wonderful folks have passed away.  Paul Kelly being one of the recent ones.  He was a good guy and a great supporter of Shidler.  Anyway, the last time I talked to Sunny he was just as friendly and jovial as ever.  He spoke about the bull he bought off us and how that was the best bull he ever had.  Just for your information, it was a Hereford bull and one of the longest bulls I ever saw.  The bull must have had an extra rib or two because it was particularly longer than normal.

The first time I remember meeting Sunny was when he pulled up to our farm and ranch with his bulldozer and truck.  He came to clear about 40 or 60 acres of timber so we could put it into bermudagrass on Beaver Creek.  He just knew how to push those big trees and roll them into piles without getting killed.  If you don't know it, it was a very dangerous work when you are pushing down trees that are 40, 60 or even 80 feet tall.  Some were so big that dad would cut them with a chainsaw and then Sunny would dig up the stump.   Some of those stumps laying on their side were taller than me.  It was interesting seeing a transformation of the land so that we could plant grazing material (grass) on it.  In fact I remember our first planting was a bermudagrass sprigger being pulled by the tractor and I would stand in the back of the trailer shoveling bermudagrass sprigs into the planter.  It was a dusty and dirty job as the wind would blow the dirt and trash back in my face.  I actually kind of liked doing this job because it was fun to see the outcome from our work.  We also planted lespedeza and sweet clover to hold the dirt along with turnips until the Bermuda caught on.  It took a lot of faith that all this expense and work would pay off but it did.  I think we had the best bermudagrass in the county because our land was almost entirely bottom land on Beaver Creek.   Now for those city folks, bottom land is land on the bottom, not on the rolling hills.  Typically bottom land would be more fertile and have more moisture as there was generally a creek in those areas.  Land on a hill typically had shallow soil and held less moisture and therefore did not provide as much necessary elements to grow grass.  Sunny was part of all of this and I don't remember how long he worked at our place but it seemed to me he spent the entire summer at our place.  Wouldn't it be interesting to know how much it cost back then to own and run a dozier (bulldozer)?

My dad really liked Sunny and always spoke of Sunny as a good person and good neighbor.   Back to my point about knowing a man and what they were really like.  I cannot say I knew Sunny well but if you took what people said about him plus your own encounters, Sunny must have been a great person and one of those great Osage men who had grit, a great smile and a good heart.

What better way to be remembered.
Thanks for sharing your time with me,
gary@thepioneerman.com

Thursday, November 14, 2013

What happened to Our Home

I saw today an investment that I really liked and then I realized the reason I like it is the same reason I am frustrated all the time with our political system.  In my home, The Osage, it was so wonderful and free of government intervention.  People were proud and people did not care who was rich or poor, or at least I never noticed.  People cared for each other and if someone had a need they did something about it.  No complaining or pointing or telling others to do it but just plain old Osage Do It Now kind of do-en.

The only complaint I ever heard was my Dad saying if the government would stay out of farming then he could make a living.  Now you may not know much about farming but the government has been involved for years.  As far as I know it started back during the dust bowl when the federal government helped folks to plant trees along their fields to stop erosion due to the drought.  This is one time I am sure it made some sense but I would have to say I was not there either.  The government then started paying farmers to not plant crops and it made sense (CRP) so all land would not be converted to planting wheat and create the dust bowls again.  The government then started limiting production of milk because there was an oversupply and then the government started paying peanut farmers (not in the Osage) to not plant and then limiting the amount of peanuts that could be planted.  This was the beginning as far as I know of the politicians killing free enterprise.  I will not attempt to go into the details of these programs but there are probably hundreds.  But what started out to be a good thing has now turned into a system where farmers are dependent on government programs.  The government has insurance to protect a farmer against crop failures and quit frankly I would have to say I agree with this one.  But I don't agree that the farmer who doesn't purchase the insurance should get bailed out by the tax payer.

Another injustice happened to a fellow Osage person who lost their house in a tornado.  They had insurance and when they showed up at the FEMA office they told him and her they could not help them because they had INSURANCE.   ARE YOU KIDDING ME!  What happened to responsibility of buying insurance?  Why  buy insurance if the government (make no mistake here and assume the government is paying because it is the tax payers not the government) is going bail out those who do not take responsibility.  I thought FEMA  was to help folks get back on their feet and have always been a supporter until I heard this story.  If you own a business and you take the risk you lose it unless the government (tax payers) bail you out like GM, CITIbank and AGI.    Where did we go wrong?  What did I do or not do that allowed free enterprise to start a slow death?

Bad things do happen to good people but why is MY HOME / YOUR HOME / OUR HOME seem so different today?  Change is good and you can ask my mom and she will tell you the "good old days" were pretty rough and she is glad they are gone.  But what happened to pride?  What happened to caring?  I remember it never took a committee to figure out if something needed fixed at the old Grainola Methodist Church.  If something needed fixed you just fix it and NOW.  It was the same way at home.  If something needed paint we painted and we did not wait nor procrastinate.  I think that is my Mom and Dad's strongest attribute, they did things NOW.

I remember when I was a kid, if a neighbors yard needed mowed (neighbor was measured in miles) we loaded up and got it done.  My sister cleaned and cooked for every old person in Grainola for years without being paid or asked to help.  She did it because it was the right thing to do.

I was just telling my nephew, Richard Crow of Groundzero fame, that I want more every day to be like my dad and that is to be a friend to everyone and help folks when they needed help.    

Well I guess I should stop but I am not perfect and not even close but I would like to experience some of that Osage Pride but most of all that Osage Do It Now stuff.

Thanks for listening,
gary@thepioneerman.com
                                

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Teaching and not knowing

I found myself thinking about how often I was being taught by my parents, friends and neighbors during my growing up years in the Osage.  Did you ever consider that when you asked your parents if it was alright to go fishing or hunting that they were teaching you?

Many times over the years when Dad and Mom did not have a list of things to do or at least felt like giving us a little freedom Larry and I would ask if it was alright to go fishing or hunting and they would just say, "sure".  No questions asked, no warnings given, no hurry back, no "be careful" remarks, just questions like, "will you be back for lunch?".  Actually that was a question never ever needed as we were boys and lunch was always on the agenda.  By the way it was DINNER not lunch and SUPPER not dinner.  We never packed a meal that I remember but we were late getting back many a time.

Think about it.  They let us go somewhere without a cell phone or any other ability to contact us.  They allowed us to be responsible and quite frankly they expected it.  They expected us to follow the laws and be smart about what we were doing.  They taught us to be responsible by EXPECTING us to be responsible. They allowed us to make decisions and do things and they knew there were consequences and consequences were the responsibility of US and our family.  We were responsible for preparing, going and then clean up.  Let me break that down.

If going fishing we had to  not only think about what to wear but we had to gather our equipment and think about what to use for bait.  Back in those days bait was not man made.  If we wanted worms we had to go dig them and we had to figure out how to find where the best worms were.  If we wanted grasshoppers we had to figure out how to catch them and store them.  If we wanted to use minnows we would take a seine and catch them.  We learned to think ahead, anticipate what might be the need or obstacle along our trip.  No one told us where to go so we had to decide to go pond fishing, creek fishing or even lake fishing.  We never had a boat so it was always about how far do we have to walk and do we need shoes for mudding.  My entire point is we were forced to think, reason and anticipate.  Once again my parents taught us not only how to think but how to raise children all in simple things.

My parents taught me how to fail and how not to want to fail  but desire to get ahead.  They provided me an opportunity.  OK let me say it one more time but in an example.  They taught me HOW TO FISH and they never gave me the fish.

Well what do you learn in the Osage?

  • Teaching and learning is not always hearing and regurgitating information
  • Teaching can sneak up on  a person and learning happens even when you do not try
  • If it is free somebody else paid for it.
    • and one last point that will surprise you.  I think Obamacare is a great idea because now everyone knows someone is paying for it even if it is only the 50% who pay taxes.  
  • Nothing is free - freedom is expensive, capitalism is expensive, socialism is expensive and communism is expensive
Thanks for reading,
gary@thepioneerman.com